nothing really needs to be said, but . . .

Nearly each morning, I have a sad routine that I follow once I go online: check e-mail; read all my friends' blogs*; search through Squizzle's new stuff--i.e., pictures, movies, etc; check out Ebaum's stuff; occasionally look at the Slate; and sometimes I'll read through some of the BBC. Like I said, it's a sad routine; but hey: everybody's get one.

A couple of days ago, while following this routine, I came across this picture on Squizzle. This is truly one of those instances where nothing really needs to be said, but I simply cannot stop myself. (I will try and keep my waxing to a minimum, though I cannot promise I will succeed--the picture is saturated with elements that simply beg for comment).

First of all, I'm not real sure how long ago this article was run in the papers; but that's really not my concern. My primary concern is that it exemplifies certain strands of thought that run through our society--many of which some do not see as problematic. One of these strands is the tendency to find another cause for problems that are ultimately self-induced. The dude in this picture is doing just that. He's not willing to own up to the possibility that his smoking is the cause of his coughing. There was another article that illustrates this same way of thinking--as seen in the following picture:

Another strand, which is only implicit in this, is what some people have called "the entitlement mentality". While this mentality has so many variables connected with it, the primary one is: because someone (or something) else is (supposedly) at fault for another's problem, that someone (or something) owes the one who is "suffering". Part of this thinking may be closely connected with the idea that lawsuits are the new lottery. (Don't know how to handle or drink a hot cup of coffee? That's okay; spill it on yourself and sue the company for a boatload of money because it's obviously their fault).**

People need to own up to their own problems and admit it when they are the cause of them. Casting blame elsewhere and/or suing corporations for large sums of money will not remedy the heart of the problem, nor will such tactics actually improve one's quality of life. It is only when people acknowledge what's wrong in their own life--and recognize that much of it is self-induced--that people can truly make a change for the better.

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*Jake, Chad, Derek (my brother), and Dr. Weatherly (a professor from my school).

** A local coffee shop here in Cincinnati has one of the best messages on their cup-sleeves that I have ever seen. It simply says: "Don't be a bonehead--this stuff is really hot".